One Question That Changes Everything When You Feel Stuck

You know the feeling. You’re doing all the right things—showing up, meeting deadlines, keeping up with personal commitments, checking the boxes—but something still feels off.

Not broken. Just… off.

I’ve been there. In business. In parenting. In the middle of a “successful” season that didn’t feel like success at all. Even with years of experience coaching and consulting, I still hit moments where I wonder why I feel disconnected, uninspired, or stuck.

And the doubt gets loud:

• Why can’t I stay motivated?

• What’s wrong with me?

• Shouldn’t I be more grateful?

  
  

But those questions only tighten the spiral.

Here’s the one that actually moves the needle:

"What do I want more of—and what’s in the way of that?"

Whether you're a business owner, a leader, an employee, or simply someone trying to figure out your next best step, this question shifts everything. This simple shift takes you from self-blame to self-leadership. It helps you pause the hustle and check back in with what matters most.

And I was recently reminded by a friend that if this still feels like too much, it's ok to start even smaller.

Clean a drawer. Go for a walk. Do something simple that doesn’t require problem-solving. Clarity doesn’t come from pushing—it comes from giving your brain a breath of space.

And when you're ready to lean in, I’ve created a free Clarity Worksheet to help guide your next step—professionally, personally, or both. You don’t need a new title or a total reset. You just need one honest moment—and the courage to take your next best step.

Download the worksheet

Book a free 30-min discovery call if you'd like to walk through it